I'm a very life and let life, chilled, laid back person.
Until you trigger my PTSD. Then I become a total bitch and I know this about myself which is why I do everything I can to avoid situations where I will get triggered.
Otherwise, I'm the on behind you at the checkout tossing an extra buck on the counter because you're short. Or picking up the little old lady with obvious back issues and giving her a ride home so she doesn't have to walk. Or any number of other little things I do nearly everyday to spread the peace around.
I can think of only one time did I get my back up with some editors and that's because THREE of them decided to pepper my submission with PNs about everything wrong with it and me.
It's all good. I helped them find Jesus and pulled the piece. 🤣