See, I'd much rather meet for coffee than anything else. In less than 30 mins you can make a graceful exit, no harm, no foul. Dinner can take a couple of hours depending upon where you go and movies even longer. What if you just don't like the looks of them on sight?

Me I'd tell them that it won't work out and go back home but some would sit through the entire date and then feel like rap after. Not my style. Life's too short.